Should we strive for perfection?

Should we strive
for perfection?

The pursuit of perfection has long been celebrated as a virtue. Whether in academics, careers, relationships, or personal growth, the idea of striving for perfection is often tied to ambition, excellence, and success. However, ask yourself is it truly beneficial and realistic to aim for perfection in life? While it may sound like a noble goal, striving for perfection comes with significant drawbacks that can outweigh its perceived benefits.

Perfectionism is often associated with high standards and a commitment to excellence and people who aim for perfection tend to push themselves hard to achieve extraordinary results. 

This drive can foster growth, improve skills, and lead to accomplishments that might not be possible with a more relaxed approach. For instance, an athlete striving for perfection may train rigorously, leading to remarkable performances. Similarly, in creative pursuits, the desire to achieve something flawless can lead to innovative and inspiring work.

Another argument in favor of striving for perfection is the sense of satisfaction and pride that comes with accomplishing something to the best of one's ability. When you pour your heart and soul into a task, the end result often reflects your dedication and passion, leading to a sense of fulfillment.

However, while perfectionism may seem admirable, it can also become a double-edged sword, and there are many downsides.

Perfectionism often involves setting unattainable goals. When perfection becomes the standard, anything less can feel like failure and this can create a cycle of disappointment, frustration, and self-doubt, as achieving true perfection is rarely possible.

Striving for perfection can also lead to overthinking and procrastination. The fear of making mistakes or producing something "imperfect" can prevent individuals from taking action, stifling creativity and progress.

The relentless pursuit of perfection often requires immense time, energy, and mental effort. This can lead to burnout, exhaustion, and chronic stress, affecting both physical and mental health. Constantly chasing an ideal can leave little room for rest and self-care.

Perfectionism doesn’t just affect the individual—it can strain relationships with others. Holding others to impossibly high standards or focusing excessively on flaws can create tension and resentment. Similarly, being overly critical of oneself can lead to feelings of isolation and inadequacy.

When perfection is the goal, failure becomes unacceptable. This fear can discourage risk-taking, experimentation, and learning from mistakes—key components of personal and professional growth.

Maybe the answer lies between the two?

Instead of striving for perfection, aiming for progress and excellence may be a healthier approach. Excellence involves doing your best within realistic limits, while progress emphasizes continuous improvement rather than flawlessness. This mindset allows for mistakes and learning experiences, fostering resilience and adaptability.

So, whilst thinking about striving for perfection may initially seem motivating, it often leads to stress, dissatisfaction, and missed opportunities for growth. 

Embracing imperfection and focusing on progress can pave the way for a more fulfilling and balanced life. Perfection may be an illusion, but growth and self-improvement are always within reach.

Don’t beat yourself up by being too hard on yourself - life is short and meant to be enjoyed - so get your priorities right - and live longer!!

Try it and see!
Love & Light

 Roger

“For those who understand – no explanation is necessary – for those who do not understand, no amount of explaining will be sufficient”