Just be Your True Loving Self!
Just be Your True Loving Self!
One of the things many people are afraid to be is their true essence. There is a fear that if we are our genuine selves, people would not like us. If they knew this about me – they would run to the hills!
So instead we pretend to be what we think people want us to be.
This is a sure way to self-destruct in the long term and many clients I see who are suffering from a variety of health issues, have relationship problems which are causing the imbalance in their bodies.
How many people get married knowing there are certain things they do not like about their partner – but in time they will be able to change them. Really!
No one can change anyone – apart from ourselves – and so by being honest upfront about potential issues down the track, we can clear the air and build on a solid foundation – or realize it just is not going to work
If there is a disagreement about a “show shopper” in a relationship best not to give all your energy and time in trying to “fix” it – but have the courage to walk away.
If one partner really wants children and the other definitely does not – hoping one or the other will change their mind is highly unlikely – and I have seen several marriages break down because of “major” differences.
As I have mentioned before in our newsletters, most of our health issues, I believe, are caused by emotional issues – often buried deep within us – where we have allowed things which do not resonate with our “soul” to manifest into a physical illness.
Issues around love probably carry the most powerful emotional energy charges and when someone we love hurts us or is no longer part of our lives for one reason or another, our health can take a hit. Physical and emotional feelings use the same pain centers and our brain uses the same neurological pathways to feel those feelings.
You may have heard of broken heart syndrome, but you may not realize it is a real medical condition that can negatively affect your physical, emotional, and mental health.
Broken heart syndrome is also referred to as stress-induced cardiomyopathy, in which the heart temporarily enlarges ― a serious and sometimes fatal condition. The condition can occur when going through a breakup or divorce, grieving for a seriously injured or departed loved one, or during a time of extreme stress.
It’s speculated that broken heart syndrome is the cause when loved ones die within a short time of one another, such as spouses dying hours or days apart ― or a couple of years ago you may remember actress Debbie Reynolds passing away just a day after her daughter, Carrie Fisher.
Love is the greatest and most complex human emotion. While everyone experiences love differently, everyone has the capacity regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, religion, etc. Love comes in many different forms and manifests in many ways throughout your life and relationships. After you have been profoundly hurt by someone you love or lose someone you love, it can seem insurmountable to recover, move on to the next phase of your life, and find happiness and love again.
With time, soul searching, self-discovery, and being open to new experiences, you are likely to experience the fluttering butterflies in your stomach, sweaty palms, and dopamine high that comes with finding new love.
From personal experience, I know this is true. I was divorced after 25 years of marriage and in my head thought I would never find another partner – but lo and behold – when running a meditation group in Weston Super Mare in England some 25 years ago, in walked the women I fell in love with – we married a couple of years later, and I have never been happier.
So, for those of you looking for love, my advice is don’t go looking for someone to marry – tell the universe what qualities you want in a partner – and trust the universe will provide. It always does!
With love & Light,
Roger
“The meaning of life is to find your gift
The purpose of life is to give it away”